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Saturday, 24 March 2012

I am matured now or am I matured?

Since I am in the college now and what is the most amusing thing of college is the one question that is gyrating in most of the cerebrums studying here is," for what purpose are we here?"
And there are various ripostes to which run of the mills are to secure future, to get a good job, to get a good girl and one of the most astounding rejoinder was to have a degree because my dad is hankering after it. But still it is not pacifying and after peregrinating  much I met my friend and he was having the unsurpassed response to which my impetuosity mollified and the reply was to be matured. And this made me concern over myself ,"am I matured?"
And for this too I had to travel another many miles and then I got my answer. But in advance of that it is very interesting to ask all of you," Are we all all matured?" Think and again the answer lies within yourselves. My mother used to tell me that it is very much necessary to be a good anthropoid before anything else and at I used to listen it and not more than that. But it meant a lot which I comprehended now, she only meant that you should be matured as the time comes.

Recently I was in my college taking a look at my result and for no surprise I cleared all the hurdles and was happy but what was disheartening  to me was the aura that was making me stifle and there was a continuous round of  interrogations regarding the score and I was amid that multitude who were being interrogated, somehow I absconded but it was escorting me to my dorm even. So there was sheer row of happiness and sorrow all around but it was me who was transfixed without any cipher of  exuberance or mourn. And I was just absorbing what all was going on and in thick of that one person with amiability came and offered me some syrupy and made an obvious inquiry what did you score to which I responded,"I became matured ."


And pat comes another inquiry," what?" And I again replied,"Yes I am matured now." And then came the practical question I was waiting for,"How?"  To which I smiled and said thanks for the offer.

Now I want to elucidate that we don't study just to get a degree or make ourselves get a good job. But the main purpose of education is to be a good human being and to be matured enough to understand ourselves first. You were in the primary school and were having an inquiry of how much did you score to one of your classmate and the same question continues till you get in the secondary level and also you get in the colleges then you must have earned a degree or certificate and you must have increased some numbers in your age but still you are having the same mentality as that you were having in the primary and secondary level and it has not increased yet. So think and answer to yourself I am matured or Am I matured? To me I am matured now and its your turn to be mature.

Monday, 19 March 2012

what it takes to be a perfectionist

As far as today's world is concerned we are very much voracious for success but sometime the eagerness and the hunger for the success leads to some of the very rapacious sequel. There are various confrontations which is a real proof for the above statement. But we have a very attenuated line of difference between being successful and being perfectionist. So what it takes to be a perfectionist? So prior to that we must know that is it a fact that a successful person is not a PERFECTIONIST always but a perfectionist is always a successful person. If you are in any sort of dilemma than the answer lies within the yourself. In our country we dream and dream so much that it is enough to satisfy us and leave the rest on god, whether its blaming or denouncing him for his done and than consoling themselves what they did was not wrong, leave for being it to be right.
What is the cardinal conundrum with all of us is that we make ideals easily and start visualizing ourselves on the very much place where they belong but can't see the excruciating pain they had to sustain in their lives ,the moment we came across the throes they had to suffer and it imbues you to prepare yourself to go under the rigorous training to face all the impediments in future, then only you can be a successful person you dreamed of. And for that the most important thing is that one should be in proper discipline, which is the most important recipe for any type of success. From each book whether it's being THINK AND GROW RICH OR ANY OF THE ROBIN SHARMA'S BOOK or any of the book the main aspect which they focuses upon is DISCIPLINE.
And it's not a one day game to be abide by the discipline but a regular practice which will keep you in hunt for  success.
In short perfection is not a small thing thing but small things do make perfection. So gear up and make yourself disciplined to be a PERFECTIONIST.