I am raped...

I am Raped!!!

The “recent” rape had “again” outraged the whole nation. This time the victim is different, the case is different, the culprits are different but the anguish is same “again”. Newspapers showing stats of various cities such as our capital ‘Delhi’ and the stats are quite “satisfying”, rapes have been reduced. And all of a sudden the most threatened city is now the “software City”, “the air conditioned City” of India. Some stats that came just after the “recent rape” were like this, 8 rape cases in a single day, six-year-old raped in “the School”, “nun” raped, two-year-old raped by a sixty-year-old man and many more.

Now the conversations, discussions and arguments that came across me were of very different kind.

The Politician leader camouflaged this heinous act by comparing the number of rapes that were committed in the reign of previous government and the present government. And one statement was like, ‘there are 21 CR people in our state yet there are very less criminal activities here.’

People started categorizing the rapes into “worse than”, “worst”, “shouldn’t have done like this”, “shouldn’t have done to her, she was just two-year-old.”

People started compromising and arguing on their refuge, consoling themselves by statements like, “this kind of rape don’t happen in Delhi, at least children are spared.” Hence, Delhi is safer. “Thank God, the child is raped. “Nirbhaya” case did not happen in Bangalore.” Hence, Bangalore is safer to live.

And from this come various statements such as, north India is not safe for girls in night and south India is safer or north India is totally unsafe.

Sorry but I will start from the very beginning of this article.

Why our outrage is impulsive and why it doesn’t create any long lasting impact? Why we get a wakeup call only when something is done to someone? And this point is very much known to our government and the paid media. They know, public will shout for few days and then will be busy again in their daily routine and forget about the incident but the pain. What about the pain, the torment that the victim has gone. That pain remains the same for her and for us also. That is the reason we are out there on roads protesting and demanding justice for her.

The Politician will be giving some weird excuses and then making some laws to stop rape and strong punishment for the one who commit rape. And in these laws there will be restrictions to girls like, she should not wear short dress, no hanging out after 9 pm and many more. But let me ask you one thing, was that girl who is six-year-old wearing any skimpy cloth, was hanging out after 9 pm or was she at any other place that is not considered good for school? No, she was in the school, fully dressed with no body parts being shown and that too in the school hours. Then tell me why rapes are committed?

We don’t need laws or rule to protect ourselves from being raped but need to change the mentality of the public and of the people who are being selected by us and are sitting on our head and playing with our lives.

Why they are just giving excuses and that too like, “In our state the ratio of population is to rapes is less than the other state.”

People should stop “adjustment” by consoling themselves by comparing states and the type of rapes. They should step out and protest in such a manner that it lasts forever because who knows the next victim lies near to or you. Because whenever there is rape the victim is not raped but we all are raped, I am raped.

Friends

Situations which come in your life give you two options either you should break yourself down or make yourself stand against that situation, making everything go well. But you need something or someone to give you strength, support or help, in that crucial moment of your life.

And that could be anyone it could be your mother, father or brother or friend or anything like God, some memories. In my case it was my friend who helped in coming out of every perturb condition. I was broken, crashed and then trashed. There was no one who understood what happened and most importantly why it happened? I had no rejoinder but to circumvent every eye which looked for an answer. I had to become deaf for every question which asked me why. All I could do was just to keep mum and listen to what others said and advised. And in the ‘others’ it included my family members, my friends and society. No one was having the solution but a piece of advice and that too for free.

As day passed there was only one thing that was with me, it was my only friend but was invisible in every scene. You should never say or think anything about your friends because when you are true to them they are true to you. They might never be seen around you when you need them but they are always there even when you don’t need them, they suggest you, they care for you but they might not show it in ways like falling tears, slapping up on your mistake but calmly listening to what you say and you automatically gets the solution after pouring your heart in front of them. Never lose your friend but be acquainted with who is your real friend. It is nearly impossible to find a real friend now a days but it is totally on the cards to find who is not a real friend of yours.

I wrote this article just to remind that there is still friendship living or meagerly living in this world but it is there which can support you knowingly and unknowingly in your discordant time. The decision is yours whether you trust yourself and your friends or you are bending to the situation that is ready to tear you in to pieces.

DEAL: LIFE OF A CHILD

The deal is set up. And the deal is; study till 10^th board very well, pay heed to our instructions, directions and do as we say and what we say. And after that you do what you want to do; grow your hair, make it up to knee length, wore torn jeans, come home late, night outs, anything but before that do give us a brilliant and outstanding result. The deal is finalized, given stamp without asking the child who is unknowingly being dragged into this never ending deal, in which it has no rights and no shares at all.

And the result is superb, excellent and marvelous. And just like the political parties, the parents didn’t make it up to their promised agendas and likewise the voter, the child is used up by their parents, as a show off in the wretched society they are living in.

Now comes the second innings when the child after being outlawed from using the rights and leverages which were promised. The name of this innings is 12^th board, and the agendas are still the same with the parents, the voter; the child in the hope of fulfilling the promise this time gets to know that the agendas would be fulfilled but in the next innings and what was most depressing of all was that the tenure of the coming is not 2 years but a hefty 4 years.

The child has done its best, got outstanding score both in the boards and the entrance exam, but goes into a college which is not IIT. And the child is no more a citizen of this country; the society treats the child as an orphan. All the promises were again made to lure the child to get good grades in the college. Did their best by saying we will do what you will say to us, from parents they become friends but this is just a trap to track whether their vote is going into their vote bank or somewhere else. The child starts sharing each and everything lured by the latest proposal. The child did never hide a thing from the parents and ultimately tells about the love interest to which they agree actually to keep the voter the child happy. But this malicious society to which the child’s parents are a part of, have been infected by its ill-intentioned stings and hence uses several types of technique to keep their nose up in the society. They start taunting the child, and forces to forget the love interest so that the parents can invite the society for the celebration of the child’s marriage for which they had found a love after taking a long interview, getting all the steps verified if the love interest is eligible for them or not and not whether the love interest is loveable or not.

And the whole life of the child becomes a mess. The child from the day it was born remains a child and could not take a decision of its own, could not live a life of its own. The parents who blindly love society start killing their own clan surreptitiously and naively.

Yes this is the deal set up between the parents and their child. This will continue to be like this, and the words like true love, passion all will be seen only in movies. This is how, the society is eating up human lives, where no one is ready to understand their own child and are ready to slit them up just to keep their nose up in this wretched place.

This is just a meandering taunt over the incidents happening in our society and this is the starting scene. If you are abusing a politician for not serving you, you are no different to them.

Feelings…..

Feelings

There are many words associated with this phoneme. And the nicest of them all is Love. One cannot defy the fact that it is one of the wonderful feelings that actually happens with everyone be it with their Parents be it with their Kin be it with their better halves or anyone but it is somehow more compatible with someone who is actually no one to you and somehow becomes everything to you, this is when it becomes more important and it changes you in a better way, the way you think the way you do things the way you care the way you love the way you touch the way you feel the way you do anything it brings out some positive changes in your life.

It is a feeling that surrounds you with beautiful thoughts and emotions. Everyone must have been through this phase or most of the people would have gone through this feelings myriads have even expressed their thoughts over it by calligraphy or by any other measure and even I am not a pariah so am expressing my thoughts over this wonderful feeling.

When the souls are ready to bask in the shower of love then you start noticing everything your first touch, your first hug, your first hold, your first kiss, your first walk and more importantly which is more a romantic scene your first walk in the rain, your first evening together your first lunch and in between this there is a whole different world which helps in making each and every second a moment which is priceless and nothing in the word can buy you this. The smile, the tears, the word that fell up on your ears, the soft touches, the sweet pains makes up your life a place to live and there is no word called hatred betrayal or war nothing like this. Holding hands simplify all the problems gives strength to face any impediments looking in the eyes makes you feel if nadir is there then it is here only. Mesmerized hypnotized these feelings start gaining their importance, travelling the time becomes a regular phenomenon when you can go back and collect those special memories and live them again and again and again. Dreams become wishes. Happiness starts increasing manifolds. Weather starts playing an important part, each n everything starts looking more beautiful than ever. You start loving smiles, teasing and all the small things happening around you whether it’s a song or a picture or anything playing. You start loving and understanding the words more than ever. You start loving expecting and giving surprises. You start believing, trusting and hoping whatever happens you will do the best for him and her and there you start actually loving when you start believing blindly.

Someone said somewhere it is very important to be in the state of love whatever you do and one can never understand this until and unless he is state of deep love and believe me it is the best feeling in the world and also there is no wrong and right in this feel everything is right and you can never go wrong when you love someone and believes it to be your god.

And also do this much of love that the one you love when sees himself or herself from your eyes he or she start loving himself or herself even more than ever. Even I write Geeta or Bible or a Quran long feel of mine that wouldn't be enough to explain love. At last but not the least for the one whom I love, a few lines to you my Kaasyaa, my Daisy, my Paglu, my JM and my everything.

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“Things can never go wrong when you are with me

Every torments and shackles go flee

You are the deity I cannot dare to defy

You make all the impediments simplify

Happy is the situation when I care for you

Happier I’ll be when I die with you.”

Are we free?

 Yes the diversity, the diversity of India. We are really proud of what I said in the earlier lines. But is it actually true or we are just showing it of that we are proud of or it is just a boasting or self exaltation? Whatever it is but one thing is for sure that ‘WE’ the people of India are not sure that are we really proud of what we should not have?

Now the question arises that the complex line mentioned above portend to what and which situation of our country? And yes! Some of you must be having the rectified answer. The answer is ‘Are we really free or we still are encompassed or besieged by the same impediments and deterrents during the time we were subservient, abject and acquiescent under the Britishers.’ And to that question the riposte will be ‘NO’ and why is so? Do ‘WE’ have any rejoinder any elucidation? And again the same big ‘NO’ appears.

Our country is made up of various states and they all have contradistinctive religions deviating beliefs colorful festivals and yes! The mismatched language. All above idiosyncrasy are seen as an organ in a body but what about the language? No it is still considered as the biggest hindrance in our so called integrity even if the government sees it or not but it is. There has been lot of places in our country where it is practiced willingly and there is no solution for this. For example I’ve been talking to one of my friend who recently got placed in a designing company (won’t be revealing the state) and a team was appointed to perform the various tasks allotted to them. What he recited to me was totally astounding and shocking. The team allotted to him consisted myriad of the regional people and a handful from the alien side or the other region which is not a big issue. The main concern is the synchronization when the handful of aliens are not able to get what their team is performing in their own tongue knowing that the official language in any of the MNC’s is English but they still profusely use their own tongue.

It is not the only case when one gets exasperated, even at the university level it persists. Recent case of one of my close pal proved it once again when he was allowed to give the seminar on an incongruous (according to the university which they revealed at a later stage) topic. What was amusing? That it got passed by the university and on the day when the seminar took place something happened that just shook my inner conscience. The student emancipating the seminar was on spree on there was no stopping of him he was prodigious according to the audience sitting over there (still citation needed). The whole crowd got involved in the seminar for the very first time and it was just fabulous. But there was a problem with the boy that seems to be with every anthropoid present on this earth the act of spontaneity. He used to speak in his tongue every time he commands anyone spontaneously, so while he was commanding the staff for some regular procedure he just did in his own tongue which  caused resentment in the moderator sitting over there and as the seminar got on the verge of conclusion he reprimanded that boy by first letting the gun fired on the shoulders of selecting an incongruous topic and then reprimanding for the real cause of speaking out his own tongue and if it was not enough he suggested to learn his tongue in order to give seminar.

What I am asking if it was an incongruous topic why he allowed it initially and secondly if he had reprimanded that boy by saying that he should have spoken whole of the seminar in the official language and also ordered his staff in that language only it would have been acceptable but what he did was not acceptable. In my eyes it should not have been drilled at educational level.

   But it is and what else we can say when the most vaunted personas of the society the teachers practice this and still with full pride we can call ourselves as independent. And the question again arises are we really independent?

FAILURE OF THE SYSTEM

We all are surrounded by a limitation, a boundary, a criteria, a curbstone or any bonds that restricts our ways of living and somehow we all starts living with it, adapting, reconciling ourselves according to it but some get circumvented over it and some venture upon to change it. The word 'IT' which is used here many times refers to the SYSTEM which edifies us to live and act in a certain way and in a adherent manner.

But the word BUT here holds a strong view regarding the inefficacy of the system. How does SYSTEM FAILS AND HOW DOES IT AFFECT anybody somebody or everybody. The answer is here. After many surveys and researches done by me the results were very much astounding and very much dreary too.

Here's a recent incident that came to me or more of a real, happened in front of my eyes. There were some elections going around the university these days and as the word 'ELECTION' tumbles on our eardrum, the very first thought which comes in our cerebrum is ordaining the genuine candidate or more to a practical situation selecting the one which is less corrupted or less worse than others. Why it happens ? Any reasons? We cannot find out what is the reason or why it happens but the only thing we know is that it has to happen and it will!

Now as the elections were on rolls and every balloter was busy electing his candidates but whoa! the scene got slightly mutated and the slight mutation made it more dramatic than the election itself, now it is the one who were elected previously would be retaining their places as they were the ACTIVE and I won't utter much of the word. This really was a statement that made me think and cogitate on this topic THE FAILURE OF THE SYSTEM.

Now answering the question which would soon be arising, so the first one,'How and Why does it happen?'
The answer is, the element which the system is made of is humane and they are bound to do or to commit the mistakes and repeat them. But the answer is not satisfactory the reason is the type of humans forming the system and and their ability and their decision making skills, these are the few reasons that do make the difference because they might be having some academic degree but what they lack mentioned above is not taught in any of the Schools or Universities.

The second question or the asking is that What impact will it make on ?
Yes there are lot of impacts wandering here and as I can sense that many of you are having bated breadth are wanting this  question to be answered the first impact that it will make upon is the society the environment  we are living. Intending to get the same previous results they are making the society the environment live under the rules of safety not relying on the person which can make the difference whether it be positive or negative the society is under a constant fear but the optimistic person would be having a vision that the new candidate or the leader will bring about some positive changes and if he/she doesn't that person will stand tall for it's society.
The second impact is on our selves that they hinder someone's personality and it's development and making him frustrated without knowing his actual potential and then it brings out some of the disastrous changes for the society and the whole system not only fails but also give rise to some of the worms who will be readying themselves to shatter this system

Now you decide will our system change or is their anyway that the failure of the system can restrained???
I had read somewhere that,'If all is well with the Universities then it will be well with Nation.'
Hope so the statement made by any of the great man does not go wrong.

Reading are WE losing it?

Reading the word which used to be a boon for all of the anthropoid in the preponderating condition of our world but it is an ignominy to all of us who are studying and pursuing some sort of course. There are myriads of humans who are literates still don't want to read ,they are called Aliterates a different term apportioned to this coterie and those belonging to this clique are nothing but are singly culpable for making each and every person in this filed of literature go hang their head in shame.
But the question arises are they only responsible for this degradation and the answer as well as the one who be riposting would be on the horns of dilemma as the radicle genesis could be the one who are the most vaunted personas of our society THE TEACHERS the one who shows us the paths who usher us in various triumph and the next big question arises HOW?
We all are well versed to the verity that the teacher plays an important function in building up a child's career but what if  the pedagogue himself or herself is not ready to impart the success formula that is READING. There could be various reasons for this to happen might be the teacher adroitness in not much good to lure the students to let mesmerize in the beauty of the subject he or she is teaching. What I erected that the biggest reason for the extinction of reading habit is the impoverished method of teaching prevailing in our country.
There are teachers tutors who are in multitudes don't have the fascination towards what they are going to teach and when they don't have keenness toward their field how come they kindle up the conflagration into the heart of the scholars.
This is one of the most hilarious thing I have witnessed so what could be the possible justification why the teachers the gurus in today's world are not able to ignite the fire towards reading in the heart of the students there could be ample of reasons so today I want to interrogate all of  you what are the practicable reasons for the pathetic condition of the teaching style which is leading the students lose their reading habit which results in  half heart studies and lack of interest so I want answers in the form of comment given below hope you would come up with some of the most astounding ripostes.


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